2. Caring about what city has what.
Advantages, disadvantages. Whatever. Some people like to drive some people like subways, some people like both. I’ve enjoyed both my time in NYC and my time in LA for totally different reasons and I’ll probably miss parts of both when I eventually move to some place I’ve never been. If you’re happy with where you live, you don’t need to call out other cities on what they don’t have. Also, New Yorkers - you don’t need to defend yourselves, the only thing LA has you should be jealous of right now is the Dodgers.